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Why does love make you uncomfortable? | depression | 11g5msw | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
It's selfish for you to kill yourself because it might hurt other people so the solution is you are forced to suffer? | depression | 11g5cda | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
How do you stop yourself from sinking into sadness? | depression | 11g4ewz | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
My friend is having suicidal thoughts again, how can I help them? | depression | 11g3qty | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
suicidal thoughts | depression | 11g29vm | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | You should talk to someone, you can talk to me if you’d like. | null | null | null | null |
Being left out/friendships | depression | 11g0dnt | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | You deserve better friends
There are better friends for you, who are going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated..
Am sure you will find them one day
Do not feel bad | null | null | null | null |
I am 26 years old dealing with social anxiety | depression | 11g09yz | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I don't want to live anymore | depression | 11g06nj | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Sending you love and support | null | null | null | null |
I feel depressed because I don't feel appreciated. | depression | 11g04r4 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | The only person you should blame for not appreciating your achievements is your own self, do not seek appreciation or validation from anyone else
Dig deeper and you will find the answers :3
Stay strong | null | null | null | null |
Advice | depression | 11g01bj | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Not enough details
Try not to be hard on yourself | null | null | null | null |
Am I depressed? | depression | 11fzlgb | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | Those are definitely symptoms. Have you talked to a medical professional? That's who would be able to really diagnose you. | Recently, a guy who I was somewhat friends with committed suicide. I have been very good friends with his girlfriend for a long time now and we talked a lot about it and still continue to. She knew of his mental condition, while I had no idea. I am also starting to experience symptoms, but feel exactly what you describ... | Hey, I see myself in what you are writing. I am also a”happy girl “ and feel that when I open up to my friends about it they don’t take I serious because I am always so “happy”.
I feel I also act this way so people around me feel good about themselves. I know that if I am real about my feelings people will not want t... | Yes.
Because if we can “cause happiness” for others, maybe someone can do it for us? | null |
It's pointless isn't it? | depression | 11fz5qz | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Trying so hard not to give up | depression | 11fyyu9 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Sending you love and support
Don't give a f about what other people say or think
Live your life the way you wanna live it
Hope things get better for you soon | null | null | null | null |
Is it selfish to kill myself? | depression | 11fyuuq | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Is it wrong to think | depression | 11fypmj | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Am I considered suicidal if basically just an intrusive thought? | depression | 11fya87 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | thats where it begins ngl | null | null | null | null |
I give up completely | depression | 11fxobp | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Come on man. If I've learned anything from gambling, it's that one more bet can change your life. Roll the dice again. 🥂 | I feel the same way. | come on dont give up yet , i feel the same felt the same tried to die but survived nd it still sucks but i am tryna survive everyday just uk sit down nd binge watch stay alive first of all then start exploring urself uk the fun person in us gets overshadowed by this so | null | null |
What do you do about reappearing nightmares? | depression | 11fwldm | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Alternatives to talk therapy? Any ideas? | depression | 11fwhqw | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | Maybe some art therapy? Painting? Singing? Or dancing? Animals are great too :) | Maybe what you are looking for isn't therapy in the first place, depending on your expectations and goals.
Are there specific areas in your life you struggle with? Then maybe find a mentor - someone who has a lot of experience and can help you tackle those challenges, specifically. Could be reasonable for professional... | null | null | null |
Should I kill myself? | depression | 11fvcx4 | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | true | kill your life, not yourself. if you don't want to be near your families then don't. find a side job, seek a cheap apartment. problem solved. | I’m not the one to really try to convince someone to not commit suicide, but I’d never encourage someone to do it either. Ultimately, you really need to find a passion, find something to look forward to everyday, don’t look too far ahead. Just keep focusing on getting through the next 24 hours, repeatedly. Don’t look t... | Definitely not. The things going on in your life are things that will change. Once you're out of school, you will have more options. Hang in there! | You got this. I was salutatorian in my hs, and my sister was valedictorian. On the outside, it looked like I had so much going for me. But my parents were abusive and neglectful, and I was so depressed and alone. I got out and moved away for college as soon as I could. I now live two states away from them and have buil... | No, I do not think you should. The world is bigger than your experience of it and there are more possibilities than your depressive brain is capable of imagining. Call a crisis line if you need to. You need people you can get empathy from and that you can talk to. They may be people you've never opened up to before but... |
Just dropped out of college after 5 months | depression | 11fvcds | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Universal Boredom | depression | 11fv5xu | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I have no purpose | depression | 11fv4r4 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
It's really getting tough going through each day | depression | 11fu4jb | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I’m probably going to take 10 sleeping pills soon. | depression | 11fu4eq | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | man kill your life not yourself…
sending hugs :( | null | null | null | null |
I have accepted the fact that I will never be happy | depression | 11ftx9h | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
It seems like no matter what I do I’m just not allowed to have fun | depression | 11ftn1q | 1 | null | true | false | 0.99 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
everyone hates me for attempting suicide | depression | 11ftmi1 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | It’s hard to know you have that reputation now and people probably reach out out of concern which feels even worse because you might feel like a burden on them. Just remember your relationship with yourself is all that matters. If you can get in your own good graces then everyone else will soon follow. You shouldn’t fe... | null | null | null | null |
Physically disabled | depression | 11ftlon | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Time doesn’t heal | depression | 11ft85y | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | false | You're amazing, wow. | BEAUTIFUL! You got a knack for writing | null | null | null |
You know I just really, really hate the fact that not being able to talk to people leads to years of suicidal loneliness | depression | 11ft3fu | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Do you watch a lot of porn? | null | null | null | null |
Grief is the price we pay for love. | depression | 11fsyr4 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I feel worthless. Can someone help me feel better? | depression | 11fsq3v | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | [removed] | null | null | null | null |
What Happens if I Check Myself into a hospital | depression | 11fs1if | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | Understand what your saying..it's like you can loose your whole credibility but at the same time it makes you feel worse because you cant get the help you know you need..
Good luck. however, it works out for you | null | null | null | null |
Relationships | depression | 11frlev | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | I get like this too. I feel I only click with a certain amount of people. | null | null | null | null |
i really want to kill myself or something to numb pain | depression | 11fr2sq | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | I feel you, but it's okay if you missed an opportunity maybe something big is waiting for youuu
It's life, nothing goes as our demands here...
Don't hurt yourself for what you can't even control... | null | null | null | null |
Does anyone else get the desire to just throw away everything in their life? | depression | 11fqo62 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
At this point, I don’t think I’ll ever actually get treated as a person. | depression | 11fqaii | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
“Breaking up” with friends | depression | 11fpb33 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I was broken up with for my depression | depression | 11fozm1 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Hey man, I know it's hard but try to stay strong and don't give up on all the progress you made. It sounds like she was judging you all along and wasn't the person you thought. I've had anxiety/depression my whole life but I was able to find someone that understands me. Best of luck with to you | You know I can identify with a lot of what you've written but the one that genuinely made me laugh was the holes in underwear because I never noticed that it happens more often than I thought until my gf said "I can literally see your arsehole" haha.
Listen mate it sounds like both of you did the best you could and yo... | And here I am thinking if I should break up with my girlfriend to spare her dealing with depression… | I wrote an email to myself like this when a girl broke my heart in high school, but nobody will ever read it. I don’t think it’s productive to complain to people like this, because it’s good to stew on your own thoughts. There’s no better marker of mental health than being able to keep your own council, which is a life... | null |
Setbacks make me want to give up. Help? | depression | 11fou0n | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | There will be many more moments where small mistakes compound into bigger issues. Some mentors do similar things to see the extent of that person's abilities. Some pick on their students since that was how their mentors treated them. Some will be so irrationally strict on insignificant minor issues since they see thems... | null | null | null | null |
started cutting myseld, feel unable to cry? | depression | 11foodv | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | Its okay to not be able to cry. I'm also in a hard spot with my relationship as she is ignoring me and forcing me to change but thats just what life is. Think about something that can take your mind off of your relation ship like anything you enjoy. For me I love playing the saxophone for my school band and that makes... | null | null | null | null |
Coping methods? | depression | 11foobb | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | I use a digital coloring game on Facebook called Cross Stitch Masters. For some reason, that simple game relaxes me more than anything else. | I'm actually in 8th grade too, for the most part drugs which I'm sure isn't healthy but it helps to sometimes just chill while faded of dxm or weed, maybe alcohol | null | null | null |
What's the point of life if I don't enjoy it? | depression | 11fodbn | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Feeling like a hopeless failure | depression | 11fn121 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
can somebody please give me advice or talk to me | depression | 11fn0i5 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
suicidal tw: sh | depression | 11fmuyh | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Advice / how do I help my suicidal brother? | depression | 11fmtpq | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
I start work tomorrow. I'm still depressed. | depression | 11fmiei | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Why do I feel like I'm useless and a burden? | depression | 11fm1wk | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
never had a diagnosis but if this is what depression feels like idk what to do | depression | 11flxr0 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Why is being productive so hard? | depression | 11fluts | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
i don't wanna die | depression | 11floh8 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Does the shame ever really go away? | depression | 11fla5q | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Are there any good apps for depression? | depression | 11fk5ha | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Ketamine infusions? Anyone? | depression | 11fjtst | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
I hate my parents. | depression | 11fjner | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I dealt with the same growing up so I know how horrible it can be. When you get out on your own it will all change. | null | null | null | null |
Do I even matter? | depression | 11fj98i | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
SEEKING HELP FOR FRIEND | depression | 11fiqmb | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I need someone to talk to | depression | 11fiken | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Afraid to go off antidepressants ? | depression | 11fiiu0 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
don't wanna die, but don't want to exist either. | depression | 11fieus | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I am not gonna go alone. | depression | 11fhzgr | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | I know what you mean when you feel no one cares, this feeling of hopeless is terrible.
I am in the same situation, i hope you're going to be ok ❤️♥️ sending you my love | null | null | null | null |
I lost all my friends and the person I love doesn't love me back | depression | 11fhy52 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | maybe if they were real friends you wouldn't have lost them, maybe that happened so you can find better friends:33 | null | null | null | null |
Every time my husband verbally abuses and intimidates me I want to die | depression | 11fhjnj | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | You don’t sound happy…What are the barriers preventing you from leaving? Money, children, support system etc?
I get leaving an abusive situation is not as easy as some other posts are suggesting. | We support you | Abuse him back. Pull some real home alone shit on him | Please... Contact ANYONE whom you trust, your friends, your family, I really hope you have such people in your life who would take you in until you get better. Just pack your things and go - leave. You have to. He may be evil and malintent, but he isn't almighty - when you leave, you're not under his control anymore. R... | I’m sorry. That sounds awful. I don’t know what that’s like but I do know I started to feel much better in my own life once I put up boundaries and got rid of the toxic people. We are all worth it. |
i got out of a toxic relationship | depression | 11fhc3t | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
debt is driving me to suicide | depression | 11fhc14 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | No, there's a solution, believe me, you will find another way to pay those debts and you will have your income one day | null | null | null | null |
Anxiety is a bitch | depression | 11fhb06 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Happy birthday to me | depression | 11fgxrt | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I started to harm myself | depression | 11fg3ol | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | you are not alone | null | null | null | null |
why is being productive so hard? i want to fill my day with more activities to keep me active | depression | 11ffrrd | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | I try to take small steps instead of not thinking about the end goal. Thinking about the final milestone is like quadrupling the initial friction for me. Like thinking about what to do for the next 45 mins is ok for me to get my small ass up and shake it a few times atleast | first,you have to answer this question before you can change anything
what do you want from life? | null | null | null |
I feel alone | depression | 11ffjrk | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Hi, I feel the same way. I’ve dealt with horrrible anxiety the last year (much due to fear of death also) and have not kept in contact with or made any new friends because of that. If you wanna talk about it with someone I’m here. | null | null | null | null |
Explained a recent traumatic event to social worker | depression | 11ff42g | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Struggling in graduate school and depressed | depression | 11fexom | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Just a suggestion: why not quit the school (like dont think it as something u need to do anytime in the future) and just focus on some small work and giving yourself to recover?
Yes, family members will always say things such as “finish college”. Probably because most people cannot even comprehend how depression or ... | null | null | null | null |
I want to kill myself | depression | 11fcxm8 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I find life so boring | depression | 11fcfax | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I need a break | depression | 11fbujk | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | You just just posted what I am feeling for past 2 - 3 years | Man I fucking want to meet new people but I hate people it’s a tricky one but everytime I prove myself right proving that I’m too nice too kind too considerate too helping but not no more let me tell you that I’m done helping and receiving nothing in return done tryna be friends with people that flake on me 24/7 done t... | null | null | null |
I want to talk to someone | depression | 11fb6c8 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Hi!
Do you have a good doctor you can go see and talk to? | I also feel like no one listens to me. Everyone is too busy with their lives | null | null | null |
Quitting college for the third time and ready to admit im a irredeemable failure. | depression | 11fatl4 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
How I cured my depression | depression | 11faoxf | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Can't stand thinking about the future | depression | 11faowt | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Depression is destroying me | depression | 11faj1v | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I need a tight hug | depression | 11facsf | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Does this count as sexual assault? | depression | 11facqc | 1 | null | true | false | 0.99 | true | sounds like grooming, but yes, she's crossed a line. I understand you don't want to lose her friendship and want to help her, maybe talk with a professional/suicide hotline and try to get some ideas of what you should say to her when this happens. Maybe they will have some info you can share so she will get some help. | Tell her you support her but that you feel uncomfortable with what she is doing to you | null | null | null |
i m considering suicide | depression | 11fa9c3 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | [removed] | null | null | null | null |
i hate everything | depression | 11f95xl | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I think I am good to be dead | depression | 11f93bw | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with such negative thoughts and feelings. It's important to remember that these thoughts and feelings are a symptom of depression and not a reflection of reality.
Here are some things you can try to help cope with these feelings:
Seek professional help: Consider ta... | This is a great comment, and sorry to hear you’re in so much pain OP. Life really does throw us some curve balls sometimes. I would also advocate therapy or any kind of mental health courses you can get your hands on. It truly does help to have a professional to open up to. The self care aspect is incredibly important ... | null | null | null |
Are there physical/ neurological causes of depression? | depression | 11f92q0 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Realized I’m a terrible person | depression | 11f8vx5 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
I’ve done everything that I can, and I’m still not feeling better? It’s getting worse??? | depression | 11f8b5n | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
is it okay to sleep all day? | depression | 11f7y5w | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | I’m sorry you going thru this. You aren’t alone in feeling like this. I wake up and try to go back to sleep, and have no motivation to even get out of bed. I’m hoping I’m gonna find a way to cope with this and I hope you can too | null | null | null | null |
I feel like i’m never gonna get better | depression | 11f7rn3 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | Tough times don’t last, tough people do, you got this. 😌 | [deleted] | I'm in the same situation.... Have you tried medication? Or other treatments?
I tried almost everything nothing helped. Considering tms but i can't trust anything anymore
Hope your feel better ♥️ | ditto work was awful today and wanted to walk out but debt prevents that. | null |
Loneliness sucks | depression | 11f7rmd | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
Is depression a cope from the tough things I am afraid to face ? | depression | 11f7dpa | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | This is a question for a mental health professional, not really for Reddit.
But these are certainly good questions to be reflecting on. My (non-professional) advice is that you are not your thoughts. You might have thoughts that involve fear and avoidance. But you can also have new thoughts where you recognize that y... | I wonder that too. I think yes. Ironically, it makes you even less capable of making changes. | null | null | null |
I found out my sister do sh months ago. I can’t help but be angry at her | depression | 11f706a | 0 | null | true | false | 0.5 | false | Why is she depressed at school? What made her feel the need to self harm in the first place? | null | null | null | null |
How do I not run away? | depression | 11f6wuz | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | I’m sorry you going thru this much. Life can be really difficult. I’m going thru tough anxiety and depression too. I don’t tell my family the extent of mine, but I feel like they know. I don’t want to die necessarily, I just want to feel some sense of hope or meaning in continuing to live. | null | null | null | null |
I feel like I’m fighting for my life | depression | 11f5ov9 | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | false | null | null | null | null | null |
My brain is using my past mistakes to make me feel like i dont deserve my life presently. | depression | 11f4xv1 | 3 | null | true | false | 0.81 | false | You're not alone. The things that I did before keep me up at night. I also have depression and anxiety. | I feel the same way. These past few days I've been a little bit happier bc I made new friends and loneliness is something I struggle a LOT with. But everytime I'm happy w them I start feeling very weird and sad bc it's like I don't deserve to have genuine friends. I start to question their friendship and stuff like tha... | null | null | null |
Debt making me suicidal | depression | 11f4kh8 | 20 | null | true | false | 0.96 | false | I'm in the same spot, 15k in debt and I have a gambling issue and don't work. | I felt similar today. Reading this made me feel better. It's a bit dark so prepare yourself but it helps to know that the world is the thing that's wrong not us.
Mine will probably be the darkest answer you will find. It really depends on which side of the fence you sit on. Back a long long time ago we had greeks who... | I’m in a similar boat. Struggle after struggle after struggle. I want to kill myself just to make it stop | Watch out for that interest trap. It's a weird thing to say since I don't really have any other advice. But I can tell you that the debt itself is not the problem. It's that interest that forces you to be a bank slave as it compiles into more debt. If you are able to talk with a bank to discuss better payment options i... | it's not fair on you to cover costs for your mum on credit card debt. |
all i do from wake to sleep is lay in bed and watch youtube. the boredom feels physically painful | depression | 11f4dfk | 1 | null | true | false | 1 | true | yeah ，if I somebody pull me out of youtube/books/my fantasy sources I'd start crying or become extremely depressed in a few minute, it's really these fantasies keeping me alive at this point ,there's no people I wanna stay alive for | Get out and walk around | null | null | null |
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